The Goddess Path  Issue #31

Sorting The Seeds

July, 2005

This Issue: Table of Contents

Psyche's First Lesson
Sorting the Seeds
The Gift of Gratitude
Conserving Energy

One of Psyche's Last Lessons

Even though we're half a moon late in getting this newsletter out to you, you have never been far from our minds.

The big "news" is that we've moved . . . a disruptive undertaking made even more traumatic by my doing a "Humpty Dumpty" by taking a great fall just as we began the process. Lifting, bending, reaching out, and twisting became quite difficult (ouch!). Couldn't have made it without my White Buffalo Woman Bliss Meditation Mist and the help of my family, friends, and a divine osteopath who the goddesses have blessed with healing hands.

The good news is that we are now happily ensconced in our new home...a place of spiritual energy and peace. We look forward to a great future here.

The lesson I gleaned from all this is how easy it is to take for granted the truly important things in our lives, to become distracted by all the clutter that surrounds us... the ever-expanding "lists of to-do's" and meeting the excessive expectations we place upon our selves.

One way or another, your goddess within will be there to insist that you take the time to look after yourself regardless of how chaotic or frantic your days have become. She will not hesitate to throw you to the ground if that's what it takes to get your attention and force you to take care of what really matters.

And that was the first of the valuable lessons that the goddess Aphrodite taught to the young Psyche.

Sorting the Seeds

Recall that Psyche had to humble herself and ask the help of the Goddess of Love (and her new mother-in-law) in order to regain the love of her husband, Eros.

Aphrodite demanded that Psyche complete four tasks, each of them more frightening and difficult than the previous, if Psyche were to prove herself worthy of marriage to her son.

The first task was that Psyche was to spend the night in a room filled with assorted grains and to have them all sorted and bagged by daybreak. Realizing the enormity of the task, Psyche huddled in the corner weeping. But an army of ants took pity on her and came to her aid, getting the job done for her well in advance of the deadline.

There are two important lessons embedded in this task of sorting the seeds, a task that represents separating what is truly valuable to us from all the debris and clutter in our lives.

Pay attention to what really matters. Don't get distracted by all the other "stuff". Hold the important things in consciousness.

The other lesson (a very difficult one for some of us who have "issues" with control) is to give up the "superwoman" mask and learn to delegate or even to accept the help of others.

Just as these were valuable lessons for the young Psyche on her path to becoming a goddess, they are of equal importance to contemporary women. We do to tend to take on much more than any mortal could ever hope to handle with grace!

Use this link to read the complete story of Psyche, the Greek Goddess of the Soul.

The Gift of Gratitude

And while weíre contemplating all the blessings we have in our lives, letís not forget about our friends. They are a constant reminder of the Goddessí devotion to our well-being. The Goddess speaks to us in all those intimate chats and confessions we have with our girlfriends.

And the Goddess often sends us her energy through our friends. With a friend we are in a constant state of grace, loved unconditionally and always understood.

This was beautifully expressed in the following email that I received. Unfortunately, as is too often the case, the author was not identified. Here is what she said:

Here is what I know about girlfriends:

--girlfriends bring casseroles and scrub your bathroom when you need help.

--girlfriends keep your children and your secrets.

--girlfriends give you advice when you ask, though sometimes you keep it and sometimes you donít.

--girlfriends donít always tell you youíre right, but they usually tell you the truth.

--girlfriends still love you even when they donít approve of your choices.

--girlfriends laugh with you and donít need canned jokes to start the laughter.

--girlfriends pull you out of jams.

--girlfriends will celebrate for your son or daughter when they get married or have a baby, in whichever order that happens.

--girlfriends are there for you in an instant when hard times come.

--girlfriends listen when you lose a job or a friend.

--girlfriends listen when you children break your heart.

--girlfriends listen when your parentsí minds and bodies fail.

Our mothers, daughters, sisters, and girlfriends bless our lives. Tell them how much you treasure the gift of their friendship, and tell them often. Pass this on. I just did!

Though each newsletter is usually written totally "from scratch", this month I've conserved my energy and included some favorite items from previous issues.

Will be back next month with something entirely new and exciting that is currently stewing in the pot. Not if I can only find the blasted pot! I know I've seen it here somewhere!

In closing, a reminder to...

Notice things, smell the flowers, and give thanks for what is good and healthy in your life.


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